The story of two characters A and B share a common situation: both have an addicted father. However, he later became a useful human being in society as a pioneer in the prevention of social evils and domestic violence. And B became a copy of a drug addict. The question posed by the sociologist is "What makes you become like that?". And their answer is, "There is a father like that, so I have to be like that." So the problem here is the influence of the family on each individual person.
What is a family? The family is where I was born, growing up is the cradle to nourish, protect me to grow. Family is the cradle of human happiness from generation to generation: cover, love, help people overcome the difficulties, obstacles in life. So the family has a great and lasting value, not anything in the world, nor is there any material or spiritual substitute.
Every human being is born and raised, and adults are influenced by great education from the family tradition. And parenthood in the family is the exemplar of the children. In fact, each member must be a good example for each other. If a parent has a loving parent, carries a good education and education for their children, then the child grows up to be a good person for the society. For example, the poet To Huu was born in the Confucian family, later became a revolutionary, the poet of the nation. Mencius Chinese people lost their father from a small but often mother strict advice, teach many things or right. Mencius later became the great philosopher of China. Many students in the countryside are poor, but look at the struggles of their dad's mother, who have been trying their best to become university librarians.
However, there are also people born in families who have a good education tradition but are themselves sinners of society. For example, Nguyen Duc Nghia in Hai Phong has a father as an army officer, his mother is a teacher. But he himself was a murderous killer (a case of a dead body in early 2010 in Hanoi). Many students rely on the wealthy family should eat the play and then lose the future lost even while sitting on the school bench.
In addition to happy families, there are also families that are not really perfect, yet there are still family members with severe handicaps. As a matter of fact, if the family has a parent father has many bad habits, the children in the family will inevitably affect the parental habits. For example, the story of the character B in the story above or the story of the guy in the short story "The boat away" by Nguyen Minh Chau. Living in a situation where a father always violates his mother, he becomes cold-blooded at an early age. He used his belt and sharp knife to fight his father. Most juvenile delinquents come from families with divorced parents or self-employed parents.
But it also needs to be aware of this: families have a great influence on the formation of personality but not always human dependence on the situation. In the case of character A is the most typical. Although his father was addicted to drugs, but A still over the harsh circumstances of the family to become useful people for society. Thus, the family only partially affects the formation of human personality, not all. The life of every human being, the personality of every human being depends on themselves.
From the above story, it is important to see the role of family in the formation of human personality. And ever, the family has two sides to each member. Every human being needs to actively change oneself to fit the situation. And in all circumstances, we also need to choose the right path, not the wind direction that way. Need to protect the family, condemn the domestic violence. For a good society, let's build a healthy family, culture.
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