When in doubt, leave room for trust. And vice versa!

Learn to trust is good. But in some cases, believing in one's own self-agonies will put you at a disadvantage.

Someone once said, "If you believe in it, chances are you will reach 50%. But if you do not believe, chances are 0%. " I used to embrace that concept and learn to trust in many cases. And most things are smooth.

For example, I do not trust a friend online. Listen to the conversation, I feel he is not good. But then I decided to meet. We had an appointment at a small corner of the park, chatting all the time about everything in life. Then I realized: "Well, it turns out this person is not as bad as I thought. Why do you think so negatively? "

I was invited to a seminar on Digital Marketing, an organization with no name, only address. I was a little suspicious and always thought: "Maybe this is a" disguised "seminar, actually multi-level? Out of curiosity and fear, I decided to join. At the beginning, the MC invited everyone to greet, shake hands, introduce, I do not want to do and said: "Why are so multi-level?" And then, the exchange is becoming more and more exciting because all the issues related to Digital Marketing are fully exploited.

Turns out, I was skeptical too much.


It is because of subjective experience before the situation, that I was quite a pain in the network. I intend to sell virtual gaming accounts online. In the online gaming world, virtual items cost several hundred thousand, sometimes several million is normal. I believed that, when dealing online like that, then have to trust, like the way I believe in real life. But perhaps the faith has given the wrong answer. The transaction is made, the game account is lost, the money is not transferred.

I began to doubt the world. That why the times I suspected really nothing, when I believe in my own hunch, I'm wrong?

Then suddenly I realized that, doubt is the thing to do in every case, even if the faith you put in it completely. Because even if you believe in the best, be prepared for the most unexpected situations. I was not mentally prepared when something unexpected happened, so easy to lose.

Confidence and doubt should be balanced. When you doubt, leave room for trust and vice versa.Life is a lot of unpredictable things, can make you hard to believe, make you lose, even surprised you so much that do not think it is real. But above all, always rely on yourself. And trust for others, what else, the best still need a little lucidity, suspicion.

- Demi Twinkle